From Expert to Leader: Why Your Mindset is the Secret to Success
- Alex Wanstrath
- Jan 14
- 6 min read
Moving from a "star player" to a "coach" is the hardest jump in any career. You spent years becoming the best at what you do. You were the fastest coder, the most efficient nurse, the top salesperson, or the smartest analyst. Naturally, your company noticed your hard work and promoted you to a leadership role.

But now that you have the title, things feel different. You are working longer hours than ever, yet your team seems stuck. You find yourself staying late to finish the technical work because it’s "faster" to just do it yourself. While you are busy "doing," your team is waiting for direction. You feel like you are drowning in tasks, and the stress is mounting.
The problem isn’t your skill level or your work ethic. The problem is your mindset. To succeed, you have to stop being the "hero" who saves the day and start being the "catalyst" who empowers others to win. This transition requires a total shift in how you view your value, your goals, and your daily work.
Understanding the Two Mindsets
To change how you lead, you first have to understand where you are starting from. Most early-career professionals operate with an Individual Contributor Mindset. In this phase, your value is tied to your personal output—how many tickets you closed, how many words you wrote, or how many clients you called.

As a leader, you must adopt a Strategic Leadership Mindset. In this phase, your value is tied to the output of your team. This requires a shift from "fixed" thinking to "growth" thinking. Dr. Carol Dweck, a leading researcher on this topic, explains that people with a growth mindset believe that abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work (Dweck, 2016).
For a new leader, a growth mindset means believing that your team members can learn to do the tasks you used to do. It means seeing a team member's mistake not as a failure, but as an opportunity for them to grow into their own leadership role.
The Danger of the "Expert Trap"
Many new leaders fall into what is known as the "Expert Trap." Because you were promoted for being a technical expert, you feel a sense of security when you dive back into the technical weeds. It feels good to solve a problem quickly. However, this is a form of "productive procrastination." While you are fixing a small technical issue, you are ignoring your primary job: leading the people.
Research shows that when leaders stay too close to the technical work, they begin to micromanage. Micromanagement is one of the top reasons employees leave their jobs. It kills motivation and stops creativity. Instead of helping, you become a bottleneck. To move past this, you must adopt a strategic mindset. This means looking at the "big picture"—setting the vision, clearing obstacles, and planning for the future—instead of just checking off daily tasks.
The Core Pillars of a Leadership Mindset
Shifting your mindset isn't something that happens overnight. It requires focusing on specific, research-based behaviors that change how you interact with your team.
1. Building Psychological Safety
Great leaders don't just give orders; they create an environment where people feel safe to take risks. This is called "psychological safety." Harvard professor Amy Edmondson found that high-performing teams are not the ones that make the fewest mistakes; they are the ones where members feel they won't be punished for making a mistake or asking a question (Edmondson, 2018).

When you shift your mindset to prioritize safety, you change your language. Instead of asking, "Who messed this up?" which creates fear, you ask, "What can we learn from this?" or "How can we make our process better so this doesn't happen again?" This encourages your team to be honest and solve problems together.
2. Developing Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Technical skills (often called IQ) might get you the job, but emotional intelligence (EQ) is what makes you a leader people want to follow. EQ is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, as well as recognize the emotions of the people around you (Goleman, 2005).
As an individual contributor, if you had a bad day, it usually only affected your work. As a leader, your mood is contagious. If you are stressed and overwhelmed, your team will feel that stress, which can lead to "emotional contagion"—a cycle of negative feelings that lowers productivity.
 Self-Awareness: Recognizing when you are feeling overwhelmed.
 Self-Regulation: Choosing to stay calm even when things go wrong.
 Empathy: Understanding that your team members have lives and struggles outside of work.
3. Moving from "Doing" to "Coaching"
A leader’s job is not to have all the answers. A leader’s job is to build a team that can find the answers. This is often called "servant leadership." Research suggests that leaders who focus on the needs of their team members—prioritizing their growth and well-being—achieve much higher levels of engagement and performance (Greenleaf, 2002).

To move into a coaching mindset, you must master the art of the "powerful question." Instead of telling a team member exactly how to fix a problem, ask:
 "What do you think the first step should be?"
 "What resources do you need from me to get this done?"
 "What is the biggest challenge standing in your way right now?"
By asking instead of telling, you empower your team to think for themselves. This frees up your time to focus on strategy.
Why This Transition is Critical for Your Career
If you don't change your mindset, you will hit a "ceiling." There are only so many hours in a day, and you can only work so hard as one person. If you continue to try and "do" everything, you will eventually burn out, and your team’s performance will suffer.

However, when you successfully shift your mindset, your impact becomes exponential. You aren't just one person working; you are a "force multiplier." By developing the people around you, you create a team that can handle more complex challenges than you ever could alone.
Strategic leaders spend their time on:
 Alignment: Ensuring everyone knows why the work matters.
 Development: Helping team members learn new skills.
 Culture: Making sure the team works well together.
 Vision: Looking six months to a year ahead to see what is coming.
Overcoming the Resistance to Change
It is normal to feel some resistance when trying to let go of your "expert" status. You might feel like you aren't "working" if you aren't doing technical tasks. This is a common hurdle for new leaders. To overcome this, start by redefining what a "good day" looks like.
In your old role, a good day was finishing a project. In your new role, a good day is when a team member learns a new skill, a conflict is resolved, or your team hits a milestone together. Celebrate these small wins in leadership just as much as you used to celebrate technical wins.
How Catalyst Strategic Learning Group Can Help
Changing your mindset is difficult because it involves breaking years of habits. It is hard to see your own blind spots when you are in the middle of a busy workday. That is where we come in.
At Catalyst Strategic Learning Group, we specialize in helping early-career people leaders make this critical transition. We don't just teach management "tips"; we focus on the deep mindset work required for long-term success. Our expertise can:
Help you identify your "expert" triggers that lead to micromanagement.
Teach you how to communicate with high emotional intelligence.
Provide frameworks for coaching your team to independence.
Help you manage the stress and overwhelm of a new leadership role.
You don't have to figure this out on your own. You can lead with confidence, reduce your stress, and build a high-performing team that delivers results.
Stop being the bottleneck. Become the catalyst.
Contact us today - info@catalystslg.com
References
Dweck, C. S. (2016). Mindset: The new psychology of success. Penguin Random House.
Edmondson, A. C. (2018). The fearless organization: Creating psychological safety in the workplace for learning, innovation, and growth. Wiley.
Goleman, D. (2005). Emotional intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ. Bantam Books.
Greenleaf, R. K. (2002). Servant leadership: A journey into the nature of legitimate power and greatness. Paulist Press.